How to Handle Misunderstanding in a More Mature Relationship Enhancing Way

[Moses joel Adetokunbo]

• Take responsibility for your contribution to conflict

Instead of immediately blaming the other person, reflect on how your actions may be hindering resolution. Are you being stubborn or disrespectful? By acknowledging and apologizing for your role in the problem, you can move towards a resolution. When both partners are willing to do this, it can completely change the tone and direction of the conversation.

•Temporarily set aside your own views

In any dead-end conflict, one partner can make a significant difference by selflessly putting their own opinions aside and genuinely listening to their spouse's concerns. This simple act of attentiveness can disarm defensiveness and open up new understandings between partners.

• Focus on emotional resolve

The most important aspect of conflict resolution is not just finding a solution but also addressing the emotional impact it has on the relationship. For example, if an argument arises over late bill payments, resolving to never let it happen again is only part of the solution. It's crucial to address any hurtful words or feelings that were expressed during that process to truly put the issue behind you.

Conflict is challenging but can strengthen a marriage if approached with honesty, effective communication, and willingness to work through underlying emotions that may still linger

[Ayotunde Esther]

Thanks for this