How you will know a person that is going through trauma

[Toluwalope]

1 When a person is experiencing trauma,the person will always want to be peaceful not because they are a peaceful person but because they cannot stand out for themselves 
2 They will always blame themselves for what they are not suppose to
3 They will always want to please people not because that is nature even if it cost them to harm themselves
4 They always react negatively to every situation
5 They will always admire people to the extent that they will forget their own purpose and uniqueness 

[Gee]

1 When a person is experiencing trauma,the person will always want to be peaceful not because they are a peaceful person but because they cannot stand out for themselves
2 They will always blame themselves for what they are not suppose to
3 They will always want to please people not because that is nature even if it cost them to harm themselves
4 They always react negatively to every situation
5 They will always admire people to the extent that they will forget their own purpose and uniqueness

Very true