I Am 30. So What?

[Aanuoluwapo]

I am 30. So what?

Welcome to a world where marriage is seen as an achievement and we put every form of pressure on our singles. Ladies especially.

When people see a lady doing so much for herself, fulfilling purpose and making God proud but with no spouse, we see her to be failing. Oh what a world!!!

Has anyone asked the question, What being married really entails? What will become the outcome of me when I say yes to this person even when I know deep down we aren't meant for each other?

We need to come to the level of knowing the importance of waiting. God who gives room for us to wait before we go into marriage isn't a fool. He is the all knowing God.

My sincere word to singles( Both Men and ladies) is to stay away from pressure. Never allow anyone to push you to settle down with someone who is lesser or not even meant for you. 

Beyond the beautiful moments of the wedding preparations, going shopping and all; what you would be left with is the reality of the person you said yes to.

The outcome of your destiny and purpose has so much to do with the person you settled down with. Therefore look well before you leap please.