_17 Ways to Test True Love_

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_17 Ways to Test True Love_

Are you in love or just infatuated? It's a question that has puzzled many for centuries. True love is a beautiful thing, but it's essential to distinguish it from lust and infatuation. How do you know if your love is the real deal? Here are 17 ways to test if your love is true:

1. _Truth Test_: True love tells the truth, no matter what. If your partner is hiding things from you or lying to you, it's a red flag.

2. _Time Test_: Real love survives the test of time. If your partner's interest wanes after a few months, it may not be true love.

3. _Goal Test_: True love is unselfish and committed to making the other person happy. If your partner only cares about their own desires, it's not true love.

4. _Maturity Test_: True love comes from a mature, regenerated, and unselfish mind. If your partner is still growing up, it may not be true love.

5. _Prayer Test_: True love puts God first and loves prayer. If your partner doesn't prioritize God or prayer, it's a concern.

6. _Character Test_: True love is based on godly character and integrity. If your partner has a questionable character, it's not true love.

7. _Friends Test_: Be careful of the company your partner keeps. If their friends are a bad influence, it may rub off on your partner.

8. _God's Voice Test_: True love listens to God's voice and obeys it. If your partner disobeys God's voice, it's not true love.

9. _Distance Test_: True love survives distance and absence. If your partner can't handle time apart, it may not be true love.

10. _Peace Test_: True love brings peace of mind. If your partner causes more stress than peace, it's a red flag.

11. _People's Test_: If everyone around you disagrees with your choice, watch out! They may see something you don't.

12. _Protocol Test_: True love is obedient and submissive to authority. If your partner disrespects authority, it's not true love.

13. _Thought Test_: True love has pure and godly thoughts. If your partner's thoughts are impure or ungodly, it's a concern.

14. _Money Test_: Can you trust your partner with your money? If not, it's a red flag.

15. _Domestic Test_: True love is domesticated and helpful. If your partner can't help with household chores, it may not be true love.

16. _Giving Test_: True love gives cheerfully and willingly. If your partner only takes and never gives, it's not true love.

17. _Acceptance Test_: True love accepts you for who you are. If your partner tries to change you or complains about you constantly, it's not true love.

If your partner fails these tests, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship. 

Remember, true love is a beautiful thing, and it's worth waiting for! Don't settle for anything less than God's best for you.

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_17 Ways to Test True Love_

Are you in love or just infatuated? It's a question that has puzzled many for centuries. True love is a beautiful thing, but it's essential to distinguish it from lust and infatuation. How do you know if your love is the real deal? Here are 17 ways to test if your love is true:

1. _Truth Test_: True love tells the truth, no matter what. If your partner is hiding things from you or lying to you, it's a red flag.

2. _Time Test_: Real love survives the test of time. If your partner's interest wanes after a few months, it may not be true love.

3. _Goal Test_: True love is unselfish and committed to making the other person happy. If your partner only cares about their own desires, it's not true love.

4. _Maturity Test_: True love comes from a mature, regenerated, and unselfish mind. If your partner is still growing up, it may not be true love.

5. _Prayer Test_: True love puts God first and loves prayer. If your partner doesn't prioritize God or prayer, it's a concern.

6. _Character Test_: True love is based on godly character and integrity. If your partner has a questionable character, it's not true love.

7. _Friends Test_: Be careful of the company your partner keeps. If their friends are a bad influence, it may rub off on your partner.

8. _God's Voice Test_: True love listens to God's voice and obeys it. If your partner disobeys God's voice, it's not true love.

9. _Distance Test_: True love survives distance and absence. If your partner can't handle time apart, it may not be true love.

10. _Peace Test_: True love brings peace of mind. If your partner causes more stress than peace, it's a red flag.

11. _People's Test_: If everyone around you disagrees with your choice, watch out! They may see something you don't.

12. _Protocol Test_: True love is obedient and submissive to authority. If your partner disrespects authority, it's not true love.

13. _Thought Test_: True love has pure and godly thoughts. If your partner's thoughts are impure or ungodly, it's a concern.

14. _Money Test_: Can you trust your partner with your money? If not, it's a red flag.

15. _Domestic Test_: True love is domesticated and helpful. If your partner can't help with household chores, it may not be true love.

16. _Giving Test_: True love gives cheerfully and willingly. If your partner only takes and never gives, it's not true love.

17. _Acceptance Test_: True love accepts you for who you are. If your partner tries to change you or complains about you constantly, it's not true love.

If your partner fails these tests, it may be time to reevaluate your relationship.

Remember, true love is a beautiful thing, and it's worth waiting for! Don't settle for anything less than God's best for you.
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